Overcoming The Colossal Fear of Looking Like A Graceless Noob
Photo: alexei_tm/Shutterstock The self-imposed stress of signing up for new dog training endeavours and how a berry U-Pick helped me to get over myself. By Kristi Benson CTC PCBC-A, Special Correspondent This page contains affiliate links which means I may earn a commission on qualifying purchases at no cost to you. Fear of Failure “I didn’t know there was going to be a test.” I picked another haskap and dropped the dark blue berry in the plastic clamshell on the ground beside me, leaving a tell-tale fingerprint in its dusky bloom. My wife groaned in that not this again way and said “just pick the berries and try to have a good time, ok? It’s a perfect sunny day and there are no bugs.” We were at a haskap U-Pick, and it’s true, it really was a beautiful day. But the U-Pick maître d’ had shown us to our picking location and given us some unanticipated instructions: please only pick the ripe berries. “There are two harvests”, she said. She pointed out a ripe berry, and then pointed ou